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For years I’ve struggled to get a good night’s sleep. I used to sleep fine, but somewhere along the way a combination of age and fat caused me to begin snoring. Kris and I went camping with Mac and Pam one weekend, and they woke me in the middle of the night.
“You’re snoring,” they said.
“I am?” I said. I was mortified. I didn’t know I snored. I didn’t sleep the rest of the night. I tried to stay awake so that my snoring wouldn’t bother anyone. Ever since, I’ve had trouble sleeping.
Three years ago I spent a couple nights at a sleep clinic. I was diagnosed with mild sleep apnea, for which I was prescribed a CPAP machine. A continuous positive airway pressure machine consists of a mask that you strap to your face so that air can be pumped into your nose at a constant pressure, preventing your breathing passage from closing. This ostensibly prevents snoring and provides better rest. In practice, it prevents snoring but still leaves me exhausted.

I have high hopes that as I continue to exercise and lose weight, my sleep will improve. It hasn’t happened yet, but a fellow can dream, can’t he? Meanwhile, here are some tips on sleeping I’ve picked up during my quest for improve sleep.
In The Owner’s Manual for the Brain, Pierce J. Howard summarizes sleep research with the following lists:
To get to sleep more quickly:
- Consume dairy products (the warmer the better).
- Avoid artificial sweeteners.
- Avoid food additives.
- Avoid caffeine within six hours of bedtime.
- Keep to a regular bedtime.
- Consume carbohydrates and fats; avoid protein.
- Read or view unexciting material.
- Avoid exercise within four hours of bedtime.
- Sleep in absolute darkness and complete silence.
- Take melatonin.
To get better quality sleep:
- Lose weight.
- Avoid alcohol within four hours of bedtime.
- Drink water after alcohol consumption.
- Plan sleep according to sleep cycles and circadian rhythms.
- Do aerobic exercise regularly, but not close to bedtime.
To get back to sleep after waking:
- Write down what’s on your mind.
- Read something unexciting.
- Drink warm milk and honey.
Some of these concepts merit further discussion. (Note: while most of what follows is in my own words, some sentences are lifted verbatim from Howard’s book.)
The Sleep Cycle
It’s not the length of sleep that is important, but the number of complete sleep cycles a person obtains. Each sleep cycle has several stages, the most important of which is REM sleep (during which dreams occur). On average, a complete sleep cycle lasts around ninety minutes. (This varies from person-to-person and from night-to-night, but ninety minutes is close.)
Research has shown that how well-rested a person feels is directly related to the number of complete sleep cycles she obtains. A person who completes five sleep cycles on a given night will feel better rested than a person who completes four sleep cycles. The trouble with certain sleep disorders — such as sleep apnea — is that they limit the number of sleep cycles one achieves.
Once you determine the length of your sleep cycle (via careful observation), you can make some important adjustments. For example, since my sleep cycle averages ninety minutes, and since I get up at 5:30, I know to go to bed at 10:00, giving me seven-and-a-half hours of sleep. If I miss my ten o’clock bedtime, I know that it makes no difference whether I go to bed at 10:30 or 11:30 — both times would offer me the same number of complete sleep cycles.
There’s strong indication that waking at the end of a sleep cycle muddles the mind; it’s better to wake at the beginning of a sleep cycle than to wake in the middle of REM sleep (the middle of a dream). In my case, I’m probably best served going to bed at 11:15, just in case I have trouble falling asleep, and just in case my sleep cycle had been misaligned.
The Circadian Rhythm
Scientists have known for a long time that humans have a built-in twenty-five hour body clock. I’m not sure anyone has developed a satisfactory explanation for why this is the case, but it is. This explains why it’s so easy for most of us to stay up late. (It’s also the reason some people experiment with polyphasic sleep.)
As part of our natural circadian rhythm, various body chemistry changes occur throughout the day, affecting us in different ways.
During the morning, rote memory is at its best. The mind is quick and nimble. During the afternoon, the body is at its physical peak. (Though there is a dip in the mid-afternoon.) In the evening, both the body and mind begin to relax. During the night, whether we’re sleeping or awake, the body and mind exhibit signs of near-dormancy.
What does this mean? If you have important mental work to do, it’s best to do it in the morning. If you have important physical work to do, it’s best to do it in the afternoon. If you’re cramming for a test, it’s better to stay up late than it is to get up early (before 6am) to study; your mind and body are at their lowest between 3am and 6am, regardless of whether you just woke from sleep.
Take naps. Based on the average circadian rhythm, the ideal time for a nap is between noon and 3pm. The ideal length for a nap is about thirty minutes. The urge to nap is natural; resisting the urge has a negative effect on health, productivity, and well-being.
Other Thoughts
Caffeine. While afternoon and evening caffeine consumption can cause sleeplessness for me, it’s interesting to note that if I drink caffeine within thirty minutes of going to bed, it doesn’t prevent sleep. Instead, it enhances my REM state, giving me wild, memorable dreams. Your mileage may vary.
Alcohol. Alcohol is a depressant, and relaxes the body. This makes it easier to fall asleep. However, it also makes it more difficult to achieve the deeper sleep stages. Alcohol before bed can often produce less restful sleep because of this.
Melatonin. Melatonin is a naturally-occurring hormone that, among other things, is responsible for the biological clock. Improper melatonin levels can lead to poor sleep. I’ve been using a melatonin supplement now for a year. I buy it in 3mg pills. Often I use a pill-splitter to produce 1.5mg doses. I find that a 3mg dose can sometimes produce residual sleepiness in the morning. Whatever the dose, melatonin works wonders for me. When I take it, I fall asleep more quickly and I sleep more soundly. Give melatonin a try if you have sleep trouble — it’s available at your local supermarket.
Good sleep is an essential component of good health, a component that many people — especially young people — tend to take for granted. Learn to sleep well and your body will reward you!
For more on this subject, check out Flexo’s guide to imporoved sleep at Consumerism Commentary: part one, part two.
10 responses so far ↓
1 Gooniette // May 8, 2008 at 6:40 am
My dad had a sleep apnea problem for a long time. My mom would wake up in the middle of the night because he stopped breathing and she would have to wake him to get him breathing again. About a year and a half ago, he got serious about his health and weight loss and no longer snores or has sleep apnea after losing about 60 pounds.
I think you’ll find similar results in the upcoming months.
Good luck!
2 Samantha // May 8, 2008 at 7:22 am
My mom had sleep apnea, and it wasn’t caused by excess weight (she’s only 135, 5′ 6″). It was a problem with her facial and neck structure. Basically, everything was just too narrow. She tried the CPAP machine and a host of other things, but finally opted to have surgery. The Dr. reconstructed the inside of her nose using cartilage from her ear to open the nasal passages more and also moved her hyoid bone forward to open the airway. Now, she doesn’t snore and is able to get a good night’s sleep!
So, weight could be one problem, but check to see if there might be other problems too. Good luck!
3 Shirley // May 8, 2008 at 1:37 pm
Dairy might help you go to sleep, but it actually would congest you and make you likely to snore more.
As a gluten intolerant person, I’d like you to consider this info.
http://www.glutenfreeforum.com/index.php?showtopic=13655
4 Lumpy // May 8, 2008 at 2:03 pm
Struggling with this myself right now. There are Oral Appliances now for treating Sleep Apnea and Snoring. Might be something you want to look into.
5 Lazy Man and Money // May 8, 2008 at 7:34 pm
Definitely getting in shape will you with your sleep apnea. I read that a huge percentage of football lineman have the problem due to their weight.
Melatonin has helped me when I’m having sleep troubles, but lately I’ve done a good job.
6 Brooklynchick // May 9, 2008 at 3:32 am
My doc recommended not watching tv or looking at a computer for at least 30 minutes (ideally 60) before bedtime. I found this made a *huge* difference.
Also, although some recommend silence, I find that a white noise machine (you can get them at Sharper Image or Brookstone) really helps me. The ocean noises help me get to sleep (I think it tells my brain/body “its bedtime!”) but also, the background noise helps me STAY asleep (I live in a ground floor apartment).
Lastly, I try my best to get up at the same time seven days a week - sleeping in on weekends led to late nights which just threw the whole cycle out of whack.
Good luck!
7 greenman2001 // May 9, 2008 at 4:18 am
In an earlier post, you wrote that your sleep had improved significantly once you started exercising regularly. Am I remembering that correctly?
Shirley’s post is an example of the problem with anecdotal evidence. What works for one person doesn’t work for another. Studies often support completely contradictory conclusions.
I’m not sure I’m following your reasoning re: bedtimes. If going to bed at 10 gets you 7 1/2 hrs of sleep, why do you conclude that you should be going to bed at 11:15? If you’re still getting up at 5:30, you’d be getting 6 hrs of sleep. Do you think 6 hrs is enough sleep, JD?
Also, although you say melatonin has worked wonders for you, it doesn’t sound like it’s fixed this problem for you, so I’m wondering what effect it’s had. Is it inconsistent? If you take 3 mg of melatonin at 10, do you feel rested in the morning? Is this a consistent outcome?
8 Erik // May 9, 2008 at 5:02 am
JD,
Have you tried sleeping in a reclined sitting position, like in a recliner?
I have a friend who is very overweight and snores like you wouldn’t believe. If he sleeps in a recliner, though no snoring.
Also when I am congested I find I sleep a whole lot better in the recliner than in the bed.
Just a thought and it’s free to try.
9 Darren // May 9, 2008 at 11:17 am
I have a good friend for whom apnea was a problem. He, like you, found the CPAP only partly helpful, but has had better success with a VPAP.
The Variable Pressure (VP) is calibrated to match your breathing pattern while asleep. These are a little more expensive than CPAPs, so generally are recommended only when the CPAP doesn’t work. You might want to talk to your doctor about trying one out — it’s certainly better than the surgery.
Ambient (white, pink, etc.) noise generators are also very helpful additions to CPAP for some folks, and are relatively inexpensive. They basically remove the stress and reduce restlessness, which is nice for those who find the CPAP to be a little disconcerting.
10 joe c // May 11, 2008 at 7:59 am
I’ve also heard that taking some valerian will help you get to sleep. Search the web for info on it if you’re interested.
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